FEATURES OF HIGH EQ
A person with high EQ:
- Expresses his feelings clearly and directly with three word sentences 'beginning with "I feel..."
- Does not diguise thoughts as feeling by the use of "I feel like...... and "I feel that...... sentences,
- Is not afraid to express her feelings.
- Is not dominated by negative emotions such as:
- Fear, Worry, Guilt, Shame, Embarrassment, Obligation, Disappointment,
- Hopelessness,
- Powerlessness, Dependency, Victimization, Discouragement
- Is able to read non-verbal communication.
- Lets his feelings guide him through life.
- Balances feelings with reason, logic, and reality.
- Acts out of desire, not because of duty, guilt, force or obligation.
- Is independent, self-reliant and morally autonomous.
- Is intrinsically motivated.
- Is not motivated by power, wealth, status, fame, or approval.
- Is emotionally resilient.
- Is optimistic; does not internalize failure.
- Is interested in other people's feelings.
- Is comfortable talking about feelings.
- Is not immobilized by fear or worry.
- Is able to identify multiple concurrent feelings.
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